May 29, 1999
We
left our home at 288 Diamond Ledge Rd. in Stafford Springs with Ken leading in
the 25ft. long bed truck (a yellow Penske) truck with trailer attached, towing
his Lexus. Ken’s jeep was inside the truck. I followed with Samson and Zeus in
my jeep. We proceeded with our caravan into the hills of Pennsylvania. Throughout this travel, I would at times be
in front of Ken and at times retreat to the rear. About 400 miles into the journey I was
travelling ahead of him. He was
preceding rather slowly up one of the hills and I thought I would go ahead a
bit further and wait for him.
Well
it was at this point that he had a problem with the truck. It just died!
It was a computer problem. Ken
called Penske and was advised he would have to be towed 200 miles to have the
truck services. He advised that was not
possible due to the fact that he had a truck full and was towing a
vehicle. So the service representative
searched for another possible solution and came back to Ken advising that since
this truck was brand new, it was probably a problem with the computer. He gave Ken the proper procedure to reset the
computer. It worked and Ken was on the
road again.
Meanwhile,
I did not know he had broken down. I
thought he had stopped for gas and I pulled off at two exits from where I saw
him last figuring that by the time I got gas, took the dogs out for their pit
stop and my own we would catch up to each other. This never happened until June 1st
in Boulder at the realtor’s office.
At
this point in the tale I should mention that I only had approximately $30 in my
wallet, a credit card and two dogs. Ken
had given his cell phone # to friends and relatives, but not me. It tried to get this from Bell Atlantic and
was denied it. I even pleaded that if I
contacted the police and they spoke to Bell Atlantic would they give them the
phone number and this was also a negative.
Also, Ken had all the maps and directions. Well, when you have to be in Boulder June 1st
for the closing of your home, what to do.
You just proceed to your destination.
I knew I had to travel on I-80 west for approximately 1600 miles, so I
just left the odometer run. When it
passed 999 and reset, I knew I had approximately another 999 to go.
The
first night I spent in the car with the dogs in a roadside truck stop. Probably slept about 1 hour, got some coffee
and proceeded toward Chicago. I stopped
about an hour later again in another road stop area and tried to sleep for
about 40 minutes. Sleep never came, so I
took the dogs out again and proceeded on wanting to get through Chicago before
traffic.
I
should also mention that Samson has a problem with his back legs in that he has
lost muscle control and is handicapped to a great degree. It took some time to figure out the best way
to load him back into the jeep. Zeus who
is all muscle but somewhat mentally handicapped also requires assistance to get
into the jeep. So every time we stopped
and I let them out, the two dogs would come barreling out like gangbusters with
Samson collapsing to the ground because his back legs were not functioning.
May
30, 1999
We
traveled at about 55 miles an hour most of the day. I was hoping Ken would catch up to me and
every time I saw a yellow Penske truck I would hope it was him and would be tearful
when I realized it was not. In Des
Moines, Iowa I pulled off I-80 West into a Best Western. I asked the proprietor if they accepted
pets. They did and I pulled out my
credit card and we had a place to stay for the night. It was a little after 4 pm. I took a shower, feed the dogs and rested on
the bed. At 8:00p.m. I turned the TV off
and went to sleep. I was so tired that I
did not have the energy to go out for dinner.
May
31, 1999
I
woke at 5:00 a.m. again fed the dogs, packed the car and pulled just across the
street to a local restaurant. They had a
wonderful buffet and I also bought a sandwich for lunch, charging it all (the
bill was about $12), ever onward. At a
road stop in Iowa I picked up an Iowa map.
Iowa and Nebraska are very large states.
It took forever to travel through Iowa.
Once in Nebraska I picked up a Nebraska state map. I knew at the end of this state I had to head
for Denver. Once in Colorado I stopped
at an information stop area and picked up a Colorado map. Around 5:00 p.m. I was in Loveland. Thought I would find a motel to stay the
night, but no one accepted pets. (There
was no room at the inn for us.)
Well
off we went to Longmont. At this point
we encountered one god-awful hailstorm.
I have never driven in anything the likes of it. At one point I thought the hail would come
through the roof of the car. (After meeting up with Ken and describing the
storm I was in, he advised that he was settled in a motel at this point an had
the news on and heard them say that the hail storm in places had hail the size
of golf balls.) Well, we got through the
hailstorm and got into Longmont. I tried
to find a motel in Longmont and found two that would accept pets, but you had
to enter through a main hallway and this I knew I would not be able to manage
with both dogs at the same time, luggage, dog dishes, etc. If I left one dog in the room, I was afraid
they would scratch the door because they would be spooked at being left in a
room in a strange place by themselves.
(By the way, they were really spooked over this long journey. They felt their safety was in their vehicle –
which they obviously considered their home.)
So,
at this point I thought I would find our new home and perhaps feed the dogs
there. It took me quite a while to find
our location. In the interim, I asked
several people for directions and was always helped in a very helpful friendly
manner, even thought Zeus barked ferociously at them. While at our new home, Samson found the
spring pool and went swimming. Now I had
a wet and muddy dog. What next? I had a few dollars remaining and went to KFC
for some dinner. After this we headed
off to Boulder to find shelter for the night.
I
don’t know how many motels I approached only to find they did not accept pets. I must make mention that these were not the
top rated motels and were a bit seedy looking.
At 10:30 p.m. I was at the Econoline Motel and was given the same info
that they did not accept pets. At this
point I asked the fellow at the desk if he knew of a parking lot I could spend
the night in and not be arrested for vagrancy.
I also made a phone call to the realtor’s office and left a voice
message. When I finished, the fellow was
on the phone evidently with the owner.
He hung up and advised that we could spend the night but did not want
the dogs to do any of their business on his property. (I had come equipped with trowel, plastic
bags, etc to clean up after any occasion.).
We were given most probably the worst room. However the sheets were clean and we could
rest for the night.
June
1, 1999
I
woke at 4:15 a.m., fed the dogs, did my Tai Chi exercises and we were out of
there by 5:00 a.m. In the morning I saw
the debris around the courtyard of this motel.
It was quite a mess and I wondered at the particular concern of the
owner about the mess my dogs would have made to his property. (I would have
cleaned up any mess.) Well, I found the realtor’s office and then found a
breakfast place on the same street where evidently all the local residents headed. I again explained my plight to the
waitresses. They helped me with phone
directories, and numbers and asked that I return to tell them how things turned
out.
At
8:00 a.m. I was in the parking lot of Wright-Kingdom Realty. At 8:10 a.m. Ande Rice, our realtor and
friend, came in. It was wonderful to see
a person you knew. She had been in
contact with Ken and he was fine. We were both concerned over each other. Ande had Ken’s cell phone number. We finally got in touch by phone and at about
9:30 am had a tearful reunion in front of the realtor’s office. It was so good to be together again.
We
decided to go to our new home to see if the owner would allow us to unload our
plants. We did so and headed off to the
closing in my jeep with two dogs. I was quite filthy and full of dog hair.
Great impression at a closing! Meet all the important players, your attorney,
title company agent for a loan, etc. At the end of the closing I needed to pick
up a bit of food from a local supermarket.
Ande gave me directions and I got to the supermarket with no problem.
Trying
to find my way back home proved to be quite challenging. At this point, the dogs had not been out of
the car for a few hours and one of them had to poop. So now I am lost and have this horrible mess
and smell in the car. I had a mat in the
back and rolled it up a bit and crying, lost and frustrated, finally found my
way to our new home. Exhausted and tired upon arrival, Ken said he would bring
something in for us to eat for supper.
We fell into bed exhausted and got some rest to meet the new day.
June
2, 1999
I
unboxed my plants and placed them outdoors, some were placed indoors and I had
to plant the perennials that I had brought from Connecticut. From this point on one day seems to blend into
all the others. You work as hard and long as you possible can to the point that
when Ken asked what would you like for supper, you did not even care what you
ate, just anything would do.
The
movers arrived on June 3rd.
They could not bring their 18-wheeler down our single lane dirt road
with irrigation ditches on both sides and had to shuttle the contents from
their truck into our Penske truck. It
took almost 3 days. During this time,
you were up and down stairs, in and out of the house directing where things
should go and unpacking boxes in the spare moments you had.
When
we arrived in Colorado after that hailstorm, the weather was beautiful, sunny,
and warm and the lawn needed water. Ken
turned on the irrigation system. The pump was located in the basement. Well, of course, it became defective and we
had a bit of a flood in the basement.
Tons of boxes of belongings were soaked and the need to unpack became
even more hurried and frantic. Since
this episode, Ken has moved the irrigation pump outdoors, which is the proper
place for it. He has repaired it and has
it running. However, it seems everything
needs some additional help or repair.
For instance, the vacuum needs repair also.
During
the time we have been here we have met more neighbors and people than we ever
did in Connecticut. It is truly quite
amazing to find consistently open, friendly people. Not that we don’t have friendly people back
in Connecticut, but I think you can relate to the generally cautious approach
New Englanders have.
One
neighbor owns the horse farm in back of us.
They are a nice couple and we will head over to visit one day to get a
tour of their property and see Steven’s greenhouse and his gardening efforts. Since the gardening will be much different
than in Connecticut, he will have valuable input and I can learn from him.
A
few days ago Ken got the hot tub working.
What heaven that is! This aching
body needs the pounding jets and warm water to sooth all the aching muscles.
It
is now June 13th, a Sunday.
My computer is still on a truck, as all of our household contents could
not be placed on the rig that delivered the bulk of our belongings. I should have this on Tuesday. This is the first opportunity for me to use
Ken’s computer. I knew my message would be
lengthy and I did not want to take away from his time on the computer during
working hours.
This
past week I brought Samson into the Longs Peak Animal Hospital. It is quite a nice setup with multiple
doctors. We saw Dr. Mike, a tall, calm,
likeable person with a deep voice, who pulled up a stool and spoke to Samson in
a calming manner, taking time to allow Samson to accept him before Dr. Mike
examined him. His diagnosis was that
Samson has a debilitating disease called Myelopathy akin to the human Multiple
Sclerosis (MS) and advised that there is no medicine or cure for it. The disease follows different progressions of
degradation. So we have been keeping
Samson and Zeus in the walk out basement in my arts/craft room, which is
carpeted. I spend time with them down
there and bring Zeus upstairs occasionally.
It bothers me that they cannot sleep in our bedroom with me at
night. Ken went on a short business trip
and I slept in the basement on the couch in their art room while he was away.
The
views out the window as I write this adventure tale are spectacular. I know when the house is more in order and I
have more of a normal life style I will be able to take more pleasure at just
drinking in the beauty this place offers.
Love,
Diane
and Ken